Being in love with a Virgo man means living in a practical world, where there will no be fairytale dreams. If you are too sentimental, then better take a u-turn right now. You will have to wait a long time to get him involved in a relationship. Even when he does, don't expect him to sing romantic poems for you or stand under your window to serenade you. It is not that Virgo men do not know how to love; just their way of expressing it is different from others. They are extremely dedicated towards their family and friends.
They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of
work and duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and
too conscious. A Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the
most, care for you and dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a
husband is expected to do. However, don't burden him with extreme
sentiments, mushy affection and tearful promises. If he doesn't run
away, he will become too cold and even the subtle display of affection
from his side may come to a stop.
This doesn't mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have
to keep the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much
closeness is not what he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with
some intelligence and an interesting disposition is what he desires. To
him, quality of time spent with you will mean more than the quantity. He
is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. If it still
doesn't turn out to be right, he will bury himself in work, avoid social
gathering and be triply cautious with people.
Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind
being single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he
has fallen in love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety
is the key to all this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily,
while being subtle all the time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you
have no reasons to doubts his intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive,
selective and honest to indulge in such kind of behavior. The love of a
Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it may take some time to
Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is
very cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships.
Lying will get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest
relationship and cannot stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the
emotions of a Virgo male is a very difficult task, because he never
consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he does have a heart; you just
have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but it will be worth
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or
uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a
steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be
rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and
forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again,
whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone to
wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will
practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details.
You wouldn't have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other
important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important
to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too
jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and
will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of
your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over.
Emotional appeals and tears wouldn't budge them an inch.
So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn't like dumb
females, who are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the
block. But, if you do not have brains, he wouldn't even look at you.
Impropriety and rudeness turns him off. So, forget wearing that short,
revealing black dress of yours. His kind of female has to be clean -
body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of a Virgo male, make
sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean house, excellent
cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to finding faults
in others, but please don't give him specifics reasons to do so in your
He will be a very responsible father and will help sharpen the
intellect of the children. He will also imbibe good manners, etiquettes
and the quality of helping the needy in them. You will never need to
worry about discipline, as he will work on that front too. However, you
will have to teach your Virgo husband how to express his love and
affection and control his critical behavior. When he becomes a little
cranky, just leave him alone and he will again be his usual self pretty
soon. With a Virgo man, you will have a tender companion who will shower
you all with love and care, even when you don't look twenty anymore!